So many emotions overwhelmed my body while carrying Vimbo;the thought that one day this little baby will depend on me for everything, was a very scary thought. When the doctors placed her on my chest, she immediately stopped crying. "Wow," I thought, "this baby knows me," I instantly fell in love.
Taking her home was a very joyous experience. I couldn't wait for her to meet her extended family. I couldn't wait to do all the things I had researched for the past ten months!!! I was excited, However, my body wasn't. I needed to rest, so I did.
The first few months were very routine because all she did was sleep most of the day. It became more and more difficult to do other things because it seemed like baby took most of my time. "Am I getting overwhelmed!!??!!?," I thought. "I can do this!". The reality was that I couldn't do it all. I needed LOTS of help. I quickly humbled myself and accepted the fact that it takes a village to raise a child. I quickly learned that though I was very knowledgeable on how to take care of baby, the practical experience needed to also be developed.
Now baby is five months old and I love seeing her little personality blossom. She recently started laughing and it just warms my heart. She is a little fighter and she is determined to get what she wants. She started learning to sit a few weeks ago, however she's already wanting to crawl before mastering sitting!!! I like that her mind doesn't stop her from getting to where she wants. I will make it a must to nurture her to embrace that state of mind.
My advise to other moms is: Take it easy!!!! There is no such thing as a perfect parent and there is never enough time to do it all and leaving enough time for yourself. You are only required to do the best you can. Make it a must daily to do something nice for yourself. It is necessary for your mind to know that you also are important! :-) " Vimbo's Mommy
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