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...Contents...
• PRAYER AND FASTING FOR A RENEWED SEX MINDSET• SEX DEFINED
• THE WHY OF SEX
• PURPOSE AND SEX
• NEW EMPOWERING BELIEFS
• A RENEWED SEX MINDSET
• THE HOW OF SEX
• Renew your Sex Menu Mindset
• Sex Tips; including; Sex-pectations, Ways to add more passion in the bedroom, etc
• Sex Tips; including; Sex-pectations, Ways to add more passion in the bedroom, etc
...Sex Defined...
• Spiritual;
...The Why of Sex...
• PROCREATION
“Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant. When she gave birth to Cain, she said, 'With the LORDs help, i have produced a man!' ” (Genesis 4:1). During sex/ejaculation, the man produces semen containing sperm and sperm fertilizes the womans egg to form a fetus ...You do remember covering this Biology right, lol :).
• PLEASURE
“Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.” (Proverbs 5:18-20).
• CONNECTION
To be able to connect with your partner at a physical, emotional and spiritual level. He enters into your world, and you open up to him to share yourself. To feel him in you, his strength, his manhood, and him to feel your warmth and depth and emotions, with a climax ... such ecstasy ... what a divine connection.
“Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant. When she gave birth to Cain, she said, 'With the LORDs help, i have produced a man!' ” (Genesis 4:1). During sex/ejaculation, the man produces semen containing sperm and sperm fertilizes the womans egg to form a fetus ...You do remember covering this Biology right, lol :).
• PLEASURE
“Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.” (Proverbs 5:18-20).
• CONNECTION
To be able to connect with your partner at a physical, emotional and spiritual level. He enters into your world, and you open up to him to share yourself. To feel him in you, his strength, his manhood, and him to feel your warmth and depth and emotions, with a climax ... such ecstasy ... what a divine connection.
• EXPRESSION OF LOVE
Tell your lover how desired and loved they are. Believe sex as a way for our not so emotional men, reaching out and wanting to connect and be intimate with us, don't reject him,instead,welcome him into you.
• COMFORT
“Then, Isaac brought her into the tent of Sarah his mother and took Rebekah, and she became his wife, and he loved her. So Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.” (Genesis 24:67). A wife and a man are to comfort one another in times of need just as Rebekah did Isaac. After a stressful day at work, or during grieving, let him forget his troubles in the depths of your warmth.
...Why sex is only for marriage...
• “For this is the will of God, that you abstain from sexual immorality.” (1 Thessalonians 4:7)
• “Yes it is good to abstain from sexual relations. But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:1-2)
• “Do not commit adultery.” (Exodus 20:14)
• “Flee from sexual immorality.” (1 Corinthians 6:18)
...Purpose and Sex...
• SEX (Procreation) - MARRIAGE - INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS - RELATIONSHIPS (Connection) - PURPOSE
It is very healthy for relationships that both men and women create
empowering beliefs to what sex means to them. It is importance to realize sex, as gift of
marriage, as pleasure and, as a strong need for man. Limiting beliefs such
as “Men just like sex” result in many sexually malnourished marriages, consequently creating an environment where the enemy
can use lust as temptation.
“The husband should fulfill his wifes sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husbands sexual needs...Do not deprive each other of sexual relations ... so that Satan wont be able to tempt you because of your lack of self control.” (1 Corinthians 7:3-5).
4 Examples of New Empowering Sex Beliefs;
• God made sex to be pleasurable and enjoyable
Old Limiting Belief; “I am ashamed to enjoy sex, what will God think.”
God is "for" sex, after all He created it, and us, in such a way that we can enjoy it. He created it to be pleasurable; All genitalia contains a huge number of nerve endings, the clitoris alone has over 8,000 of them. Our emotions and sexual organs are created to enjoy such intimate pleasure from sex. It is a gift, and there is no need to be shy or embarrassed to enjoy every minute with my husband. Solomons Song of Songs shows such a great perspective of what God thinks about sex (Song of Songs 1-8).
• Sex is a gift of marriage ... A special act to be shared just between the two of us
Old Limiting Belief; “Its okay to have sex outside my marriage.”
God created sex to be shared only in marriage; Remember Gods commandment; “Do not commit adultery.” (Exodus 20:14), or 1 Corinthians 7:2, “But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband”, and Proverbs 5: 15 - 18, “Drink water from your own well - share your love only with your wife. Why spill the water of your springs in the street, having sex with just anyone. You should reserve it for yourselves. Never share it with strangers.”
• Sex is “our special social activity”
Old Limiting Belief; “Sex is just for the man and having children.”
I love having sex with my husband. Sex for us is not just for procreation. I love being able to connect and express our love at that level. It is beautiful to experience such intimacy with him. We lovingly communicate about it, and explore it. We are creative, playful, enjoy it and have lotsa fun. I enjoy pleasuring him and him pleasuring me. Its “our special social activity.”
• It pleasures me to satisfy my husbands sexual appetite
Old Limiting Belief; “Men just like sex.”
The bible says, “The husband should fulfill his wifes sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husbands sexual needs.” (1 Corinthians 7:3). And if my husband has a huge sexual appetite, i look forward to satisfying it with a healthy sex menu, scheduled and spontaneous. His huge sexual desire may be biological and is also his way of reaching out to express his love, to connect and for pleasure. I will respond to his desire and emotional expression with love and tenderness.
*If you need some more support in this area, ask your specific question at The L.O.V. Chatline or attend an L.O.V seminar. Also see step by step guide to eliminating dis-empowering beliefs and creating new empowering beliefs.
“The husband should fulfill his wifes sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husbands sexual needs...Do not deprive each other of sexual relations ... so that Satan wont be able to tempt you because of your lack of self control.” (1 Corinthians 7:3-5).
4 Examples of New Empowering Sex Beliefs;
• God made sex to be pleasurable and enjoyable
Old Limiting Belief; “I am ashamed to enjoy sex, what will God think.”
God is "for" sex, after all He created it, and us, in such a way that we can enjoy it. He created it to be pleasurable; All genitalia contains a huge number of nerve endings, the clitoris alone has over 8,000 of them. Our emotions and sexual organs are created to enjoy such intimate pleasure from sex. It is a gift, and there is no need to be shy or embarrassed to enjoy every minute with my husband. Solomons Song of Songs shows such a great perspective of what God thinks about sex (Song of Songs 1-8).
• Sex is a gift of marriage ... A special act to be shared just between the two of us
Old Limiting Belief; “Its okay to have sex outside my marriage.”
God created sex to be shared only in marriage; Remember Gods commandment; “Do not commit adultery.” (Exodus 20:14), or 1 Corinthians 7:2, “But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband”, and Proverbs 5: 15 - 18, “Drink water from your own well - share your love only with your wife. Why spill the water of your springs in the street, having sex with just anyone. You should reserve it for yourselves. Never share it with strangers.”
• Sex is “our special social activity”
Old Limiting Belief; “Sex is just for the man and having children.”
I love having sex with my husband. Sex for us is not just for procreation. I love being able to connect and express our love at that level. It is beautiful to experience such intimacy with him. We lovingly communicate about it, and explore it. We are creative, playful, enjoy it and have lotsa fun. I enjoy pleasuring him and him pleasuring me. Its “our special social activity.”
• It pleasures me to satisfy my husbands sexual appetite
Old Limiting Belief; “Men just like sex.”
The bible says, “The husband should fulfill his wifes sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husbands sexual needs.” (1 Corinthians 7:3). And if my husband has a huge sexual appetite, i look forward to satisfying it with a healthy sex menu, scheduled and spontaneous. His huge sexual desire may be biological and is also his way of reaching out to express his love, to connect and for pleasure. I will respond to his desire and emotional expression with love and tenderness.
*If you need some more support in this area, ask your specific question at The L.O.V. Chatline or attend an L.O.V seminar. Also see step by step guide to eliminating dis-empowering beliefs and creating new empowering beliefs.
...A Renewed Sex Mindset...
• Defined;• Why; Procreation, Pleasure, Connection, Expression of Love, Comfort
• Connection to Purpose; Sex (Procreation) - Marriage - Intimate Relationships - Relationships (Connection) - Purpose
• New Empowering Beliefs; Sex is a gift of marriage - just between us, God made sex to be pleasurable and enjoyable, Sex is our special social activity, It pleasures me to satisfy my husbands sexual appetite.
• How; Renew Sex Menu
...The How of Sex...
• Renew your Sex Menu Mindset
REFERENCES
• Audiobook, Power Talk, Anthony Robbins and Dr John Gray
• Book, Things i wish i knew before we got married, Emerson
• Website, Google, What the bible says about sex, http://www.openbible.info/topics/sex
• Website, Define Sexual Intercourse, http://www.thefreedictionary.com/sexual+intercourse
• Website, How Stuff Works, What happens in the brain during an orgasm, http://science.howstuffworks.com/life/human-biology/brain-during-orgasm1.htm
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